Curious about London’s FemDom Club Pedestal?

LONDON’S CLUB PEDESTAL is London’s biggest FemDom event, devoted to the Dominant woman and the subs who worship Her. It attracts hundreds of beautiful people with a wide array of FemDom kinks, single Mistresses and subs, couples and more. If you have ever felt alone in your love of FemDom, Club Pedestal will instantly change your mind! I’ve been a Dungeon Monitor at Club Pedestal for over three years now. As a London Mistress (both lifestyle and pro-Dom), it’s one of the ways that I contribute back to the FemDom scene that allows Me to truly be Myself and a Mistress. My role as a Dungeon Monitor entails ensuring that people are playing safely, helping guests and ensuring the night goes smoothly so everyone can have the best time.

Lady Scarlett & London Mistress Lex
Lady Scarlett & Mistress Lex at Club Pedestal

LONDON’S CLUB PEDESTAL is London’s biggest FemDom event, devoted to the Dominant woman and the subs who worship Her. It attracts hundreds of beautiful people with a wide array of FemDom kinks, single Mistresses and subs, couples and more. If you have ever felt alone in your love of FemDom, Club Pedestal will instantly change your mind!

I’ve been a Dungeon Monitor at Club Pedestal for over three years now. As a London Mistress (both lifestyle and pro-Dom), it’s one of the ways that I contribute back to the FemDom scene that allows Me to truly be Myself and a Mistress. My role as a Dungeon Monitor entails ensuring that people are playing safely, helping guests and ensuring the night goes smoothly so everyone can have the best time.

I’ve met many of My former partners and subs at the club – it’s a lot easier to connect with someone whom you know also shares a dedication to FemDom. I’ve also made tons of friends, many of whom are now very close – from some of the other Club Pedestal Dungeon Monitors, like Mistress Nana, Lady Scarlett, Miss Daisy, Divine Domino, Lady Carla – to other Mistress guests and subs. 

You can usually find Me at the front of the club at the beginning of the night, welcoming new people (and enforcing the dress code!), and later, you’ll hear my loud American accent directing people through the unforgettable Select-a-Slave, an exciting game that helps guests meet and break the ice, allowing Mistresses find quality new subs and slaves for the night or sometimes longer. The rest of the night is for Me – to meet (and play if the mood strikes Me) with subs that have arranged time in advance or those who catch My eye on the night.  

If you’re curious to know more about Club Pedestal, here are some frequently asked questions, answered from the perspective of this London Mistress

I want to meet a Mistress. Is Club Pedestal a good way to meet a London Mistress?
What should I expect at Club Pedestal? Do I have to pay for a Mistress’s attention?
What’s it like for a first-timer?
I want to stand out! What should I wear to Club Pedestal?
What’s the deal with Club Pedestal’s House Slaves?
Can I attend or serve you at Club Pedestal (or another FemDom event)?


I want to meet a Mistress. Is Club Pedestal a good way to meet a London Mistress? 

Attending Club Pedestal is a good way to meet other people who enjoy FemDom and perhaps introduce yourself to the Mistress of your dreams. Keep in mind that FemDom Mistresses are real people, and while many of us love dressing up and going out, we expect to be treated with respect and not have strangers make demands of us just because We happen to be in the same FemDom club as you; just because we are Dominant women, does not mean that we are interested in being the Mistress of every stranger who approaches Us, especially not for a single night!

If you wish to meet a Mistress at a London FemDom club, you should prepare for Club Pedestal the same way you would a promising blind date. Dress to impress, shower, smell nice and bring your best conversation, the same way you would if you were going to meet and impress a stranger! There is going to be an overwhelming number of gorgeous, intelligent Mistresses at the club, as well as keen submissives and if you want to stand out, you will need to make an effort. That said, don’t be discouraged if you are shy — like Me, there are many Mistresses that find shyness (and humility!) an endearing quality, as long as you are interesting and interested (in Us!) once you get Our attention.

Don’t demand that a Mistress fulfill your specific kinks – there’s nothing most Mistresses hate more than being treated like a fetish dispenser while you pretend you are empowering Us. If you are charming, good company and offer a service that interests that particular Mistress, you are much more likely to have your offer accepted. That said, it’s also not a good idea to bounce around from Mistress to Mistress making your offer every time a different one says no – We like to be approached by subs who are specifically interested in Us, not those who try to treat Us like toys at the store to be picked up and then put back simply because you’ve gotten bored.

What should I expect at Club Pedestal? Do I have to pay for a Mistress’s attention?

Club Pedestal is a lifestyle FemDom club, which means that it caters for a wide variety of FemDom preferences and kinks, but as a FemDom club, prioritises the pleasure of the Women and Mistresses in attendance. While everyone is always free to say ‘no thanks’ to play or engaging with anyone else in the club, Club Pedestal is committed to an open, accepting and safe environment, for all guests however they may define their identity. It’s a friendly, if energetic atmosphere, with opportunities to meet new people, see performances, dance with friends and strangers alike and, potentially play and serve a Mistress. The club is pretty big, spread across multiple rooms with various protocols in each (for example, the main room and performance space are relatively protocol-free, while the Goddess room is a high protocol room with strict rules to adhere to). 

Club Pedestal is not a pay-for-play club. This means within the club Mistresses are not supposed to ask for compensation when a sub asks to play, nor should subs attempt to ‘buy’ attention – of course, it happens occasionally, but when it does, the rules are politely communicated to everyone involved. That said, paying the ticket price and attending, or buying a Mistress a drink (although it’s generally acknowledged as a nice ice breaker) does not entitle a sub to Her attention or play. Mistresses are NOT obligated to play with anyone for any reason unless They wish to.


Curious about attending Club Pedestal as My sub or slave for the night? 

What’s Club Pedestal like for a first-timer?

Obviously, I was only a first-timer to Club Pedestal once, but it was one of the best nights of My life. While I did technically attend with a group, I didn’t know any of them very well and spent most of the night making My own way. Luckily I have my bold, assertive, NYC personality and I found it pretty comfortable – I’m definitely the type of Mistress to approach a sub that I might be curious about and see if he/she impresses Me up close and in real life. 

It is quite an electric environment, so I can see how those who are shyer might feel a little intimidated, but there’s often a pre-event munch where you can meet other guests on equal ground and head inside together, as well as a tour and ice breaker events to help people get to know one another. I highly recommend getting involved – it’s the best way to get over your nerves and feel more relaxed, not to mention a great way to start a conversation with a stranger who may become a new friend or more… And of course, there’s always that amazingly sexy, friendly American Dungeon Monitor if you ever need support.

I want to stand out! What should I wear to Club Pedestal?

This is the official Club Pedestal dress code, with photo examples of what people have worn in the past. Without a doubt you should dress to impress – you are going out to a club where it’s presumed you hope to catch the eye of a discerning Domina, not to the corner shop for a night of Netflix and crisps, alone on your sofa!

The Mistresses in the club always look amazing and a great way to show your appreciation is to make a strong reciprocal effort yourself. It’s actually a common complaint from Mistresses that subs barely make any effort – at their worst, showing up inappropriately dressed before being forced to strip to their boxer shorts, hair uncombed, smelling like stale sweat – yet these same subs can’t understand why these incredibly hot Mistresses are unimpressed and don’t want to engage with them.

If you don’t have ‘fetish’ clothes, wearing all black to the club is acceptable. However, you still need to look sharp – don’t wear a t-shirt, jeans, gym bottoms or trainers. Being lazy (and self-entitled if you expect attention after making no effort) is not an appealing character trait in a sub and if you show up breaking the dress code, you will get a sharp scolding as well as be asked to change into something appropriate or leave. While we want to give people the freedom to express themselves, you should ask yourself if a FemDom club is really the right place for you if you think you should be exempt from simple rules. 

On the other hand, if you are feeling particularly confident and stylish, you should definitely enter the Best Dressed Slave competition!

What’s the deal with Club Pedestal’s House Slaves?

House Slaves, with their distinctive red aprons and collars, are provided by Club Pedestal for the pleasure of female guests. House Slaves are dedicated to supporting the dungeon monitors in making sure that the night goes smoothly, as well as the guest Mistresses. Tasks include serving refreshments and flowers to guest Mistresses, shoeshine services, foot massage and pampering, fetching drinks from the bar and, if the interests of the Mistress and slave are aligned, they may make themselves available for play (with no obligation on either side). 

House Slaves are pre-screened at a slave training evening, where the best slaves are asked to serve at the event. 

Can I attend with or serve You at Club Pedestal?

Attending Club Pedestal with a London Mistress as her sub or slave for the evening is both a privilege and a responsibility. You will be expected to be focused, obedient and good company, but it’s a unique opportunity to be on the leash and at the mercy of one of the most respected Mistresses in London. 

Since I am a Dungeon Monitor, I am very selective about allowing subs to attend the event with Me, so you will need to impress me with your application. If I am going to bring a sub with Me, I usually take the night off so that I am free to spend My time with My sub, therefore a tribute is expected for My time, the privilege of attending with Me and taking the night off from My normal responsibilities. If you impress Me, I will play with you. 

If you wish to find Me on the night when I am finished with my Dungeon Monitor responsibilities, impress Me with your charm and good company, and politely ask Me for some play that appeals to Me, then you may also get what you wish — if I feel like it!


Read more info on attending fetish events as My sub or slave for the evening.


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